Friend?

Most of us have probably heard the expression, "With friends like that, who needs enemies." This conveys the idea that a supposed friend was not being very much of one. Rather than the relationship being a benefit, it became a detriment. This came to mind yesterday as I read Matthew's account of the betrayal of Jesus.

We read. . .
"(48) Now the betrayer had given them a sign, saying, 'THE ONE I WILL KISS IS THE MAN; seize him.' (49) And he came up to Jesus at once and said, 'Greetings, Rabbi!' AND HE KISSED HIM. (50) Jesus said to him, 'FRIEND, DO WHAT YOU CAME TO DO.' Then they came up and laid hands on Jesus and seized him." ( Matthew 26:48-50 ESV)

Friend? Betrayal with a kiss? What's wrong with that picture? But that is exactly what "betrayal" is all about! It blindsides when we're not looking. It comes out of nowhere when we least expect it. It sneaks up and bites and it stings. It also reveals who may not really be a friend at all because the action is contrary to what seemed to be and thus the once concealed disloyalty is made evident.

Thinking of Judas' use of a KISS to identify Jesus brought to mind a statement made by Solomon where we read. . .
"(6) FAITHFUL ARE THE WOUNDS OF A FRIEND; PROFUSE ARE THE KISSES OF AN ENEMY." ( Proverbs 27:6 ESV)

A friend may tell us what we need to hear and it might hurt, but it still stands to benefit us. The kisses of an enemy, however, are deceptive. May our LOYALTY to Christ and others be clearly evident as we seek to glorify Him in all things and bring true benefit to the lives of others. Then our KISS or other sign of genuine friendship will mean what it is intended to mean. Such living can surround us with the same.

Have a great day BEING A FAITHFUL FRIEND!
Carl

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