Needed Openness!

It has been noted that there is a big difference between having an open mind and a hole in the head. A hole in the head might let anything drop in, while a mind open to what is being shared listens patiently and considers the advice being given.

Solomon stated. . .
"By insolence comes nothing but strife, but WITH THOSE WHO TAKE ADVICE IS WISDOM." ( Proverbs 13:10 ESV)

"Insolent" is defined as "disrespectful: showing an aggressive lack of respect in speech or behavior." [source: Encarta ® World English Dictionary © & (P) 1998-2005 Microsoft Corporation] The Hebrew word translated such in this verse [according to Strong's Lexicon] is defined as "pride", "insolence", "presumptuousness", and "arrogance". It is translated "pride" in a number of translations of this verse. [i.e. KJV, NKJV, NIV, and NLT]

Perhaps there is nothing more annoying to a "know-it-all" than to come face-to-face with someone who does. Such an inflated view of one's own wisdom usually creates quarrelling and certainly brings no benefit to self since a sense of such pride can render one unteachable! It is pride that closes the mind. It is pride that makes one rely on self. It is pride that causes one to think they have all the answers in and of themselves. It is pride that causes one to jump to the conclusion -- before fully listening -- that what is being shared is not needed.

Solomon also warned. . .
"If one gives an ANSWER BEFORE HE HEARS, it is his folly and shame." ( Proverbs 18:13 ESV)

It is the wise person who in humility will take the time to LISTEN and accept what may need to be learned. It is the wise who will humbly ask for, consider, and take advice. Though we should always be cautious regarding what advice we accept, LISTENING to what others have to say we could learn something. Imagine that! This is especially so when we surround ourselves with godly people who like us are seeking the wisdom from God.

Have a great day MAINTAINING A TEACHABLE SPIRIT!
Carl

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