Life Connectivity!

There is a sense in which we must acknowledge we are not alone or intended to live lives completely separated from others. This has often been expressed by the saying, "No man is an island unto himself." Generally this statement is used to express our MUTUAL NEED for one another. Nevertheless, we are still viewed (even by God) as individuals.

Recently I came across the following quotation: "'No man is an island.' said poet John Donne. I believe every man is an island, but there are no limits to the bridges or harbors one can build." [Roy C. Cook]

Could it be that Roy Cook's comment was intended to express the recognition of our individuality while at the same time acknowledging the personal responsibility to connect with others and allow them to find safety in a relationship with us? Even in the midst of unity we do not cease to be individuals. The challenge in view of our individuality is how we can be drawn into a meaningful connection with each other. Being in Christ is to bring us into unity with one another, but I believe the key to maintaining this unity is in learning what we can do to BE OF BENEFIT TO ONE ANOTHER. How can our life help make the life of others better?

Peter urged. . .
"(10) As each has received a gift, USE IT TO SERVE ONE ANOTHER, as good stewards of God's varied grace: (11) whoever speaks, as one who speaks oracles of God; whoever serves, as one who serves by the strength that God supplies -- in order that in everything God may be glorified through Jesus Christ. To him belong glory and dominion forever and ever. Amen." ( 1 Peter 4:10-11 ESV)

Peter acknowledge giftedness individually, but also that the gifts were to be used for SERVING ONE ANOTHER. We are to be stewards (wise users, not selfish hoarders) of what God has given to us. May we recognize our individual responsibility to build bridges and create harbors in our life that will bring godly benefit to others and glory to God. In the process we will find mutual blessing.

Have a great day DEVELOPING PURPOSEFUL AND SELFLESS RELATIONSHIPS!
Carl

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