Blessed Blesser!

We like to be WELL SPOKEN OF. However, are we always mindful of simply being WELL SPOKEN in the sense of speaking GOOD WORDS to and about others? Though GOOD WORDS may not always be deserved (and that includes our own selves) they have a power to greatly bless and bring about much good not only for those to whom they are spoken, but to ourselves as well. Speaking ill of others generally does not make us feel any better. To SPEAK WELL of and to others in a spirit of graciousness keeps a heaviness from our own heart.

Peter urged. . .
"(8) Finally, all of you, have unity of mind, sympathy, brotherly love, a tender heart, and a humble mind. (9) Do not repay evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary, BLESS [eulogountes], for to this you were called, that you may obtain a BLESSING [eulogian]." ( 1 Peter 3:9-10 ESV)

The Greek verb "eulogeo" literally means "to speak well of" ("eu", well, and "logos", a word) and was used by Peter here in the sense of blessing a person rather than retaliating or speaking evil of them. This is the same context in which Paul used the word when he exhorted, "BLESS those who persecute you; BLESS and do not curse them." ( Romans 12:14) The Greek noun "eulogia" used secondly by Peter literally means "well speaking" or "good word".

This manner of speaking is not merely in order to obtain a blessing (though we will), but we are to bless because that is what we were called to do. Regardless of what others do or how they speak, we are to SPEAK WELL toward them. Has not God extended such graciousness to us? Rightfully appreciating His graciousness ought to encourage us to treat others in like manner. This can also have a powerful impact on the way others treat us as well. Refraining from fighting fire with fire we stand a better chance of creating harmony and peace as we help others see by our godly living that God's Way is always right!

Have a great day REMAINING FLUENT IN GRACIOUS SPEECH!
Carl

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