What Do We Seek?

"I just heard something about John. Can you keep a secret?" "Oh, yes, yes!" "Well, so can I."

What a shutdown to the eagerness to have heard the tale! How often have we been a player in a conversation like that, but with the story having actually been told just as eagerly as another wanted to hear it? The truth is that those who generally talk to us about others, talk to others about us. Since they like to spread stories of such interest, what should keep them from spreading those relating to our own life? However, what good comes out of such activity? What impact does such conversation have on those involved and what is the impact on the one of whom the tale is told? The thing that ought to stop the telling and also rein in the eagerness to hear is LOVE; not LOVE for gossip, but a LOVE for others and what will most benefit them!

Solomon stated. . .
"WHOEVER COVERS AN OFFENSE SEEKS LOVE, but he who repeats a matter separates close friends." ( Proverbs 17:9 ESV)

What do we seek? Do we seek to hear "the goods" on others or do we seek a LOVE that instead of separating close friends, draws others into forgiveness and closer relationships that provide the encouragement to press on in the right path of life? In the previous chapter Solomon noted that a "whisperer separates close friends." ( Proverbs 16:28) In the process, individuals can be deeply wounded and friendships shattered. If it is information that needs to be dealt with, let it be with the individual of whom it relates for the purpose of helping them in whatever manner is needed!

Peter urged. . .
"(8) Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins." ( 1 Peter 4:8 ESV)

It is not LOVE that bears the tales, but that BEARS WITH OTHERS to encourage and help on a personal level. Our Lord's LOVE has adequately provided the forgiveness we have needed. May we follow His example as we encourage others along His path for living.

Have a great day BEARING WITH RATHER THAN ABOUT OTHERS!
Carl

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