Intimate Connections!

The handshakes, high-fives, pats on the back, and hugs we receive from one another are great encouragers as we each press on in our Christian walk. Those physical connections with others can mean a great deal. Knowing the fellowship we have with each other serves to bolster our faith and reminds us we are not alone.

While listing a number of characteristics of Christian connectivity Paul stated…
“REJOICE WITH THOSE WHO REJOICE, WEEP WITH THOSE WHO WEEP.” ( Romans 12:15 ESV)

Such is not the picture of merely acknowledging someone else’s joy by saying, “I’m happy for you.” Nor is it the idea of sympathizing with others in saying, “I’m sorry for your loss.” The connection of hearts Paul noted here is one of being able to empathize with others; feeling not just for them, but with them in possessing an openness to EXPERIENCE IT WITH THEM. Their joys become our joys and thus joy is multiplied. Their tears become our tears and the burden of sorrow is shared. This kind of connection reveals the presence of unselfish Christian character. Because of our tie with one another through Christ and the bond of love we share, such relationships can be developed where we cannot help the joys and sorrows of others from BECOMING OUR OWN.

The world may be jealous of the successes and joys of others and may turn their back so as to not be dragged down emotionally by other’s sorrows. However, the Christian heart is to be touchable on both accounts. To rejoice with rather than being jealous is a sign of maturity. To be drawn to the weeping and SHARE IN IT rather than turning away signifies a soft heart able to intimately connect empathetically with others. It is an unselfish heart able to be involved in -- as someone has called it -- “FELLOW-FEELING”! May that heart continue to be nurtured in our relationships with one another so that the mutual benefit of encouragement and support may be experienced.

Have a great day EXPERIENCING ONE ANOTHER LIVING!
Carl

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