The Important Stuff!

There is so much to do with our schedules filled with lots of important stuff. But in the midst of it all, what we are flexible enough to make time for says something about our true character.

Matthew recorded the following scene during Jesus’ earthly walk.
“(13) Then children were brought to him that he might lay his hands on them and pray. THE DISCIPLES REBUKED THE PEOPLE, (14) but Jesus said, ‘LET THE LITTLE CHILDREN COME TO ME AND DO NOT HINDER THEM, for to such belongs the kingdom of heaven.’” ( Matthew 19:13-14 ESV)

Perhaps the disciples thought the Lord had more important things to do than spend time with “the little children.” Jesus was about important things, but all generations were important. It is obvious from the scene here that even time with “the little children” was time well spent. Reading through the Gospels we see Jesus CONNECTING with people from all levels of society and of all ages. CONNECTING with people -- touching their lives by His action and teaching -- was what Jesus’ ministry was all about. As His followers do we share the same aim in life?

Last December, when we had the service for celebrating the life of my father, one of the things which touched me deeply was the number of young children who came up to me and told me how much they loved my father. There were also teens who had known my dad who expressed the same thing either in person and by e-mails sent to me. He was most definitely a people person, being able to interact with those of all age groups and be accepted by them. He even seemed to be able to get along with difficult people. I can remember (while growing up) when some tasks or travels took a little longer because he took time to talk to others or assist them with something.

If you are an older child, consider the positive impact you can have on your younger siblings. What you do, others watch. And children are easily influenced by what they see. We must guard against being guilty of causing any of these to stumble. ( Matthew 18:5-6) The reality is that we are all going to be examples of something and someone is bound to follow our example. We should therefore always strive to be a holy example and an uplifter of others. Time spent with siblings for this reason is time well spent!

As adults we need to be very mindful of our example as well. Many of the attitudes children develop are because of what they observe in the lives of adults. How can parents teach their children about honesty if they observe their parents lying about a child’s age just to get a discount somewhere or if they become aware of dishonesty with information used when filing income taxes? One of the best ways for children to learn to own up to their mistakes is to see their parents also admit when they have been wrong. There are so many little things in day to day living that teach children very important and powerful lessons.

The example we set is always important to keep in mind. And an awareness of the importance of CONNECTING with others (regardless of age) is essential. May we live a life that CONNECTS with others in ways that reveal all people are important to us and to our God. Such will be indicative of a life well spent.

Have a great day ALLOWING TIME TO CONNECT WITH OTHERS!
Carl

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