April 15, 2004
Sharing!
Someone has observed, “We should exchange problems. Everybody knows how to solve the other fellow’s.” [source: “1600 Squibs And Quips”, compiled by E. C. McKenzie]
Many are very quick to jump to conclusions and share advice when viewing the lives of others. Perhaps if the experience was completely shared there would be a drastic change in the perception of the situation.
Job had friends who thought they had his problem all figured out. However, the theology of those poor comforters was flawed, especially with regard to their distinction between the wicked and the righteous. Though they saw the wicked punished and the righteous blessed, Job pointed to the reality in life that the wicked did often prosper while the righteous were not free from some of the injustices and pains of life. It is important to recognize that life situations do not always boil down to a “cause and effect” ideology.
A reality of life is we don’t always fully understand the problems or trials of others. This being the case, what should we focus on providing?
Paul exhorted…
“BEAR ONE ANOTHER’S BURDENS, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” ( Galatians 6:2 ESV)
We don’t have to fully understand another’s situation to just be there for them; to offer the COMFORT AND SUPPORT needed. That may include some teaching when clear violation of God’s Word is being practiced (note Galatians 6:1), but even that is to be done in loving GENTLENESS. Also, rather than speaking for God (as Job’s friends seemed to do) regarding what is not fully clear, we should talk to God on behalf of others. After all, He is the One who fully understands every circumstance and situation.
“BEAR ONE ANOTHER’S BURDENS,…” Share the load. That is what we have been called to do; sharing which reveals a genuine loving interest in others and action which fulfills the law of Christ to love one another as He has loved us. ( John 13:34) May we allow God to use us to offer the COMFORT AND SUPPORT others around us may need.
Have a great day FULFILLING CHRIST’S LAW OF LOVE!
Carl
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